While you might be familiar with your sun sign, rising sign and, moon, you may not have heard of your Lilith sign. Your Lilith sign is your “dark moon”, or your “black moon”—the darkest part of your personality and it plays a powerful, provocative part in your astrological makeup.
Lilith Sign Meaning
When your boundaries are crossed, your Lilith sign’s personality traits will show up in how to express yourself. Representing the dark side of yourself, your Lilith sign and house placement can show how you express your sexuality, your obsessions, and how you push back against authority. It may show relationships with power imbalances. Your Lilith may be the part of yourself that you try to hide from others.
LILITH IN ARIES
A Lilith in Aries thrives off competition and rivalry. You may find you have strong desires to channel your anger into action publicly. This energy embodies an independent spirit who desires to win at all costs. Physical outlets help you best express Lilith in Aries so you may find you gravitate toward boxing, running, and high-intensity training. In matters of love, your passion can often go unmatched, and once extinguished, almost impossible to rekindle.
LILITH IN TAURUS
Lilith in Taurus embodies the spirit of security. You have a strong pull to express yourself sensually and are at home in a seductive atmosphere. The Lilith in Taurus energy can be gluttonous and overindulgent. You may have a hard time letting go of situations that don’t serve you and become quite anxious when your everyday comforts are not present.
LILITH IN GEMINI
Lilith in Gemini is a natural-born storyteller with a gift for writing or speaking. Beware! Your sharp tongue can see you cross the line on occasion, and some may balk at your lack of filter. In matters of the heart, you may be quit to dive right in and then just as quickly pull out. Be mindful of a lack of patience and practice reading the sensitivity of others before you speak!
LILITH IN CANCER
Exuding feminine power and prowess, Lilith in Cancer is extremely maternal. You may find you have a natural gift for knowing how to meet other peoples’ needs as well as seduce them. Are your pursuits to meet peoples’ needs genuine or are they masking your need to be needed, Lilith in Cancer? You may struggle with putting up healthy boundaries and you may be resentful toward others when they don’t give back in the same extreme capacity as you. Manage your expectations.
LILITH IN LEO
Lilith in Leo is gorgeous, seductive, and proud. The darker aspect of this is that you may go to extreme lengths to get attention and you may live for the validation of others. With this Lilith placement, you will need to check you are living your life for the approval of yourself, develop healthy boundaries with social media, and don’t become overly focused on your appearance. In matters of love, check that you are choosing romantic partners who are right for you and not basing your decisions on their physical appearance. Sometimes, Lilith in Leo, you might pass up a great match because they didn’t reach your unrealistic standards of beauty.
LILITH IN VIRGO
The Lilith in Virgo placement embodies discernment. You know a good thing when you see it. But, this energy has a dark side too. Lilith in Virgo can be a perfectionist and may struggle to accept things for how they are. In relationships, they may tend to pick people apart, have control issues, or a tendency to place impossible standards on themselves and others. Learn to love the person in front of you instead of looking for ways you would improve them.
LILITH IN LIBRA
Represented by the scales, Libra is the sign of balance. Lilith in Libra may struggle to find this within themselves and their outside world. You desire nothing more than to be the perfect, loving partner but at the same time, you don’t want to lose your individuality. Being in a partnership comes with the fear of losing your own identity and getting stuck in a life you feel isn’t yours. You come in strong in matters of the heart and this can see you hurt when your romanticized view of relationships doesn’t come to fruition. The dark side of this is that you may uphold unrealistic expectations in love to avoid having to face the challenge of finding balance with another in a connection.
LILITH IN SCORPIO
Lilith in Scorpio is dynamic. Embodying the aspects of Scorpio including sex, death, and social taboos, your powers of seduction go unchecked. You are extremely psychic and may have a penchant for using this to your advantage, sometimes at the expense of others. The darkest part of you is that you may use sex and your sexuality as a weapon, perhaps without even being conscious you are doing so.
LILITH IN SAGITTARIUS
There is nothing Sagittarius values more than freedom. They embrace change and thrive in new environments. With that in mind, Lilith in Sagittarius can encompass hedonistic energy. You can have a hard time settling down in routines, jobs, and relationships because of your grass is greener mentality. Be mindful that you do carry a carefree attitude that can take a toll on your health if you find yourself adopting unhealthy habits. Even darker than this side of you is that you can be at times blunt with people who may not be ready to hear what you have to say. Think before you speak, Lilith in Sagittarius!
LILITH IN CAPRICORN
Lilith in Capricorn wants and deserves the best. You will work hard, and you will achieve greatness. This desire can take a dark turn if it goes unchecked. The thirst for power can see you value people based on their status and how they can further you rather than loving people for who they are. Check in with yourself that you aren’t overworking to get ahead and forgetting to enjoy the little things in life. Developing healthy work boundaries is important for Lilith in Capricorn. Be mindful of not mixing business with pleasure and not bringing your work home with you.
LILITH IN AQUARIUS
Lilith in Aquarius is rebellious and resistant to the status quo. If everyone is voting “yes”, they will vote “no”. The darker side of this is you may struggle to feel like you fit in anywhere. Your deepest, innermost thoughts may concern whether you belong in the world, forgetting that this need to be different is just who you are. You can still be unique in a crowd Lilith in Aquarius! You may find you are drawn to unusual relationship structures, alternative lifestyles, and people who resonate with your individuality. Just be careful you’re not disagreeing for the sake of disagreeing because that can leave other people feeling like they can’t connect with you and compound your insecurity of not belonging.
LILITH IN PISCES
Lilith in the dreamy sign of Pisces loves to escape reality at all costs. You may prefer your imagination to reality and can sometimes struggle to grasp things for how they are. Lilith in Pisces can lean toward substance addiction and unhealthy habits as they tend to be extremely emotional beings who grapple with the fact that reality does not compare to their imagination. Face your feelings, Lilith in Pisces! Find constructive outlets to express yourself in the forms of music, poetry, art, and meditation. This will help keep you centered so you can channel your natural-born gift to heal others.
Knowing your Lilith sign can help you master the dark side of your personality. It’s not about eliminating your darkness but channeling this energy to your betterment. Your Lilith sign can caution you of situations you should steer clear of, behaviors you should become aware of, and patterns you may easily fall into as they are your kryptonite.